The Next Level

It’s not enough to do what coach tells you to do.  It’s not enough to simply put in the time.  If you’re not giving it everything you’ve got on any given day you’re never going to make it big.  Rest and rejuvenation are important, but on the days you go to the gym you can’t … [Read more…]

My First Cold Approach

I’m what most pick up artists would call a keyboard jockey. The guy that watches endless videos about high level game concepts like transcending your ego, but doesn’t even go out. Today I began my work to change that. According to the socialization goal I set for this month I’m supposed to go out everyday. … [Read more…]

You Need Focus

Growing up I heard lots of conflicting advice.  Some people said I should always be working to improve while others said it was best to accept myself for who I am.  I never knew which route to take until I realized they’re not mutually exclusive. I used to lean heavily toward the idea of constantly … [Read more…]

June 2013 Goals

In my post earlier this week titled, “Where are your goals?”, I talked about the importance of location in where you keep your goals as well as the actual significance of the goals themselves. Today I’m addressing both issues in my life.  I recently realized that many of the goals I set at the beginning … [Read more…]

Stop Researching And Start Taking Action

I haven’t written a new article in almost five days.  Why?  It’s not because I’ve been too busy.  I’ve had a lot going on, but I’ve had multiple opportunities to sit down and write. It’s not because of my 90 day social challenge.  I’m more than 5 days and 3,000 words into that experiment, but there’s … [Read more…]

90 Day Social Challenge Intro

Just wanted to announce that today is the first day of my 90 Day Social Challenge.  I’ve been extremely introverted my whole life so I’m using summer 2013 to get out of the house and learn the social skills I never had the opportunity to develop. For the next 90 days I’m going to leave … [Read more…]

Where Are Your Goals?

Today is June 1st.  We’re almost half way through 2013.  Logic would dictate that being 50% of the way through the year I should be half way towards accomplishing my goals.  The reality… I can’t even remember my New Year’s resolutions. I’ve always considered the placement of your goals to be an extremely important element … [Read more…]